I’ve been writing for two and a half months now and I realised I never really told you who Jase and I are. I mentioned this to him and he suggested to split that entry up and that I should write about him and he would write a post about me. This means you will get to read a bit of his side of the story as well which should be really interesting. I still don’t know what he’s going to write so I’m really curious myself and I promise I won’t change a thing about his text except for spelling and grammar mistakes. He proofreads my texts too after all.
Now where do I start? Most of you probably read the interview with him that I posted and therefore saw a photo of him too so I don’t need to talk much about his job and his appearance (for those of you who haven’t yet, here’s the link). People might say he’s a bit short, especially compared to his father and brother but I really don’t care to be honest. He’s a bit taller than I am and that’s completely perfect. I don’t like guys who are much taller than me anyway because they’re just inconvenient for so many reasons and you can never spontaneously kiss them. At this point I could probably go on for ever about how much I love his eyes and how I could spend hours just looking into them and how his lips are the only ones I want to kiss for the rest of my life, but as I’ll try to keep you interested I think I’ll just tell you that he is the most gorgeous man I have ever met.
If you read the interview you also know that Jase is a musician, which is another thing that I love so much about him. I always loved music myself and my ex could neither sing nor play an instrument and made fun of me whenever I was singing (and I know I’m not that bad), so it’s really a nice change to have someone who actually shares my passion. He’s been in several bands and recorded a lot of music and I wish I could say something about how great his songs are but unfortunately he’s really shy about it and only showed me one complete song so far. And that song is a couple of years old and doesn’t really represent his style anymore. It is the only recording I have on which he’s singing and the first time I heard it it totally blew my mind away. He has a really good (and sexy) voice and I can’t even imagine how good he must be now that he had singing lessons.
Also he is just the nicest person ever. He listens to what I have to say and he’s actually really interested. Usually when I tell people about what I study and what I do at uni they stop listening after a few sentences or they tell me it’s weird and change topic. Jase doesn’t, he even asks me questions about what I do at uni and how it was.
He’s a really kind and generous person. He spoils me a lot to be honest and I love it (who doesn’t?). I get so many compliments from him and I get them in every possible situation. And the best thing about all this is that he doesn’t seem to change his efforts. It still feels like he tries to conquer my heart again everyday. Sometimes it seems like he’s a little too good to others that he forgets to think about himself.
Now after having talked so much about how great he is, let me be honest with you. Jase doesn’t only have good sides (and I hope he lets me tell you about it – if you can read this he did). Sometimes he gets really frustrated or angry about things, and as he is a very passionate person his anger is just as passionate as his love. He was angry at me before and I can say that he stays incredibly in control of himself which is something I have never seen before. And usually this makes it a lot easier to talk about a problem because we can both stay calm. So, yes we have had fights already. But good fights in a way. And as long as we still talk about everything and we can forgive, that is perfectly fine.
To sum up things I can say that Jase might not be perfect but I think he is just perfect for me.
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Guess what! Jase decided to start writing a blog himself. I put the link in the sidebar and HERE. So go subscribe and comment!
Another nice post. You two sound so in love and so well matched. I’m a sucker for a musician too (my husband’s a bass player) 🙂
I did read that interview you posted, but I forgot to come back and comment. I’m now about to go and have a peek at Jase’s blog.
Hehe, musicians rock! And mine does that literally :D. Sorry couldn’t resist.
Yes, please do. I hope you like it.
I think I read you two are already living together? I feel like a big jerk for saying this, but Im gonna say it. Reading that he has never let you hear any of his songs but 1 and that he is shy about singing for you, raised some red flags for me. Only because his goal in life is music.
Please forgive me, if I was out of line to say so but I don’t think it would be right for me to think it, and not tell you. I am wishing all the best for you.
Oh, we are not living together. In fact we are currently about 18300km apart as he lives in New Zealand and I live in Germany. I think you should probably read my very first blog post ^^. Here’s a link.
I did get to hear a bit and I was promised more so I guess he’s working on his shyness. And also I keep asking him :).
So, Kiwikar, the love of my life, told me to be civil with my reply to this. So this is about as civil as I can get.
Your post angered me. Quite a lot. What are you trying to say? That I’m some huge fraud? Because to be honest, by the looks of it you’ve just started reading. To me its kind of like you read the back of a book and have this huge opinion on it when in fact you know nothing about it. I am a perfectionist in everything I do. Including performing. I spend week if not months preparing for a single show. So if I don’t just pick up a guitar and say “Hey, this ones for you Kar, it is going to sound like shit but hey, who cares” I think that is my own business, don’t you?
So at the end of the day. Please. Don’t go making judgement calls on things that don’t concern or affect you in any way, shape or form.
Thank you.
Hi Mocking bird, I can see she is deeply in love with you. It is my opinion that a friend tells the truth instead of holding back. For that reason I shared my opinion, which is nothing more than a ‘be carefull’ statement. Its what any friend would say to another friend. Nor does it jump to conclusions.
Ive read the blog long before I left a first comment. There is much I could say, but I appreciate Kiwikars desire to keep it civil. Yes, I do doubt you. But I have an open mind to not pass judgement because I know I don’t know enough about it. (hence: my word choices in the original comment.)
I cant judge your relationship. But I can judge some things on experience, the music industry is one of those things I have experience with. Breaking into the industry requires a bit of selling the soul. Shyness does not land contracts or make money. If im wrong, ignore my comment. I at least can sleep better at night knowing I told Kiwikar to be carefull.
Be careful girl. When he talks about the music industry he too knows what he is talking about. And he knows quite well.
I am thankful for your thoughts on the matter, because you actually are the first one that wasn’t all like “awww I’m so happy for you”. But I can look after myself :).
I enjoyed this post very much. You really had fun with this one.
Every couple will have fights. It is so totally “normal”.
Haha, I did indeed have fun writing this. And I know it’s normal for a couple to have fights but somehow writing about it was a bit strange.
Good, Thanks kiwikar for understanding. Im glad we can still be friends. I’ll respect your wishes in the matter and wont post any more comments like that one. 🙂
It’s alright. I was actually surprised it took so long until someone uttered concern in one way or another.
And I just noticed that “lifewith4cats” is also you. I didn’t know! I feel weird now for suggesting you should read my first blog post… ^^
I should have subscribed to the comments on this post. Wow!
Kia ora to you both,
Great blog (both yours and Jase’s) I like your style of writing and it’s cool to be talking about a different relationship so well like this.
You will be visiting the Netherlands? If you you are passing by The Hague and need a bed then drop me a line via my blog and I’ll contact you in email yes?
Thank you, for both the compliments and your offer. We will be visiting the Netherlands, yes. But so far we only planned to see Amsterdam. I might keep your offer in mind though if that’s okay. 🙂